Hi I have just joined Islamic city forum today, because I�m looking for support and advice, I am 29 Bengali, and I have been dating a 38 year old Pakistani man.
Inshallah where heading to stage of marriage as both of us are not getting any younger.
The problem we face is my partners family, He mention to them that he is seeing Bengali girl and wants to marry me, His older sister refused and told him to end the relationship and phone his mother who is using emotional black mail on him.
The situation is he has four sisters and him the only son.
Older sister married to Pakistani guy, middle sister (40) married non-Pakistani man who converted big Muslim wedding marriage did not last divorce.
2 sisters going on to their mid 30's.
He is confused because he does not know what to do; He is worried his mum will never accept us; no one will marry his sisters.
I have so much faith in Allah that with time everyone comes around.
Sisters out there could you please advise me in what I should do.
I love him and want to make this relationship hallah and stop leaving in sin.
What do I do to guide him the right way, he believes if he ends it with me he will marry an any Pakistani girl that wants to marry him just to make his mother happy and so people in community went say anything and his sisters will get married.
He is 38 going to be 39 this year!
Sisters please advice in what I should do to guide him to speak to his mum.
Islamic his mum should not refuse and girl who is of same faith.
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