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lovesakeenah
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AS-salaam alaykum babysteps Just very briefly,I think the issue of'too young' would be an inexhaustible one.The reason most of us would be in 'uniform' here is because when we relate to Islamic rulings on marriage,we might not be using that term'too young'.And to start exploring the is it the 7 or 9 Continents we have now,their culture,custom & what have you?That would be the day!In my country alone,at least,the three main Ethnic have different views regarding marriage.In a particular tribe(Hausa),these people claim to be following the Sunnah & give out their very young female daughters in marriage,once she attains puberty irrespective of the age.The problem with them is,that is just one of their 'claims' of being a True Muslim because they deny their female children the right to be educated.Now where in the Qur'an did they read that?Before I go off topic,in my own Tribe,we seem to place a lot of value in Education & do not consider how old the girl,woman,young lady is,as long as she's still schooling,she's "too young" to be married.Some of these are fast changing these days.I'd also like to read about other people's culture too.And when we also start exploring the Medical implications of marrying late,we'd sure come up with reasons for OR against early arriage.Allah knows Best! |
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Aneesah Shabazz
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as-salaam alakium how are you fine i meet a muslim brother online he come down here to meet me . we been talking on the phone about 3 months personal i don't think it is a good idea now he is in jail i was with him when they stop him i feel somebody for commit a sin
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nur1
Starter Joined: 11 September 2007 Location: Egypt Status: Offline Points: 6 |
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Salamu alaykum sister, Just one reflection about the 3D effect. I think it's not so bad to put this off and learn about the other person with an open but clear mind. Not impacted by looks and let's call it "emotional confusion or excitement". I think we women have tendenciy to get to emotional too soon anyway. Take the time to find out what are the important things for you before you even start writing somebody.Then analyze and ask the right questions, those that are important for two people who plan to live together for the rest of their lives and insha'allah afterwards. And try to find out as much as possible with whom you are dealing (all with the due respect of course). And when you feel confused, you can always retreat and look for answers in your prayers. i wish you the best in your research and don't let the 3D effect fool you... |
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Aneesah Shabazz
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Salaam Sister would anybody meet there husband online.i know somebody who meet there husband online they got married nov 3,2006 and they have not seen each other since they got married he don't want to move here with her and she don't want to go there islamic they are not together
i think online marriage is a good topic |
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