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amah
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Assalaamualaikum, Brother Sign, I know you intend well with your advice to Maryah. Allah has said in the quran to enjoin good and forbid evil. It is our duty to give advice to our brothers and sisters. After that, it is "their business". wassalaam. |
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Allah is Sufficient as a Walee (Protector) and Allah is Sufficient as a Naseer (Helper).
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Sadija
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Salaam I don't want to give wrong advice Im not an Alima. But does that wife knows he intend second one. The first wife must give permission first and I feel its bad calling her as a 'slave'. Shame poor thing. How that must be to see your husband only two months in a year? And above that its opression in my eyes. How can men do that goodness Im so sad. |
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shymuslima
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I hope that she ends this story with this Yemenis man.
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mariyah
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Wa alaikum asalaam: No, this brother had a previous wife that died of cancer..He is engaged to the american Christian lady and betrothed by his parents for the marriage in Yemen from what I understand. He has not formally married either yet. Hopefully both ladies will be happy. I do not intend to try to influence her decision whether or not to marry this fellow. That is her call. I have the brochure from Islamicity from the Discover Islam series on the Muslim woman to giver her, as well as "The Reader" brochure from the same series. She has a small book on how to do the salat and she has been actually trying to do it. I will help her as much as I can with what I know. She is a very nice person. The decision is hers. I believe even a non-muslim should be educated. |
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Hayfa
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Maryah, You are right education is not for Moslems only. We are told to seek knowledge. Withholding the knowledge would be to dis-respect her. As you said, the decision is hers and the man has told he about Yemen future wife.. some people are happy in co-wife situations. You are treating her with dignity and respect.
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