Why she won’t wear hijab?

salman_s wrote: salman_s wrote: ok.....here is the source......the name of the book which deals with the lives of the companions of Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) - Hayatus Sahaba and the author is Maulana Muhammad Yusuf Kandhlawi (Rah) btw, i have not yet read this book

oh good one

what i am talking about, that i have read it in some other book which i don't remember......i have a rough idea that i read it somewhere.... so just for everybody, as i am not able to provide support or evidence of what i m saying, so let me say that it is my opinion....

well that is a bit better response  

akm,

Assalamu Alaikum:

I have never read that the companions were so full of Iman that they would divorce their wives if they did something wrong.

That doesn't mean that it is not written somewhere, or it didn't happen, I am just not aware of that being given as a reason for divorce by the Sahaba. I would think that if it were something that occured a lot there would be many records of it, or the Prophet would have addressed the issue.

I would think, as they were the closest to the Prophet(PBUH), that if anyone were doing something wrong they would have tried to correct the behavior. That was the way of the Prophet(PBUH). Also, Islam took 23 years to be perfected. During this time people were learning and adapting, some faster than others. I am sure they were all making mistakes and then being corrected. The only way I can see the drastic measure of a divorce based on haram actions is if it was a matter that was firmly established, been made very public, and the woman kept repeating the action. (I assume we're not talking adultery here because the punishment would have been other than divorce.) In such a case where someone continued to disobey Allah(SWT) over and over then it might have led to divorce, but I think it would be something that was well known, so that we could learn a lesson from it.

Perhaps someone else knows better than I, or has actual documentation of a divorce of this nature.

Angel wrote: To other muslim members, perhap you can shed some light on my issue on page 3  And also the verse that Angela brought across, also on page 3 thanks in advance

Please repost whatever questions you have on this last page so I can try to address them sister.

ak_m_f wrote: btw I cant find mr Salmans post, Angel, I wonder why?

Um..not sure which post you're talkign about but I checked and all seems to be there

Mishmish, thanks  Do you have any idea what salman is talking about, have you come across anything of the likes?