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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote ummziba Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 12 April 2005 at 10:11am

Islamic Girl,

Just another thought.  Perhaps your husband has not been intimate with you from the start (as you said), because he fears getting you pregnant.  Perhaps he is not ready for the responsibility of children.  Something to think about.

Peace, ummziba.

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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote jalillah Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 12 April 2005 at 10:43am
thats good mashaallah blondi you got the Idea....inshaallah

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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote jalillah Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 12 April 2005 at 10:59am
Originally posted by blond blond wrote:

Originally posted by jalillah jalillah wrote:

no ..thats not true allah doesn't hate divorce he created it.. 

blondi if you've noticed you would of understand.. i've highlighted it for you...

Ibn Omar reported that the Apostle of Allah said, "The most detestable of lawful things to Allah is divorce.

Ma`uz-b-Jabal reported that the messenger of Allah said to him, "Allah created nothing on the face of the earth more disliked by him than divorce."

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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote blond Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 12 April 2005 at 11:53am

Originally posted by jalillah jalillah wrote:

blondi if you've noticed you would of understand.. i've highlighted it for you...

Ibn Omar reported that the Apostle of Allah said, "The most detestable of lawful things to Allah is divorce.

Ma`uz-b-Jabal reported that the messenger of Allah said to him, "Allah created nothing on the face of the earth more disliked by him than divorce."

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Ok.



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Assalamualaikum,

I just want to say be patience, try to discuss the matter with your husband, or if cannot, ask somebody else that he respected most to discuss it, be frank and humble, tawakkal to Allah, sometimes, things look bad for us but actually Allah wants the best for us...sometimes things look good for us but Allah knows it's bad. I'll pray for your happiness whatever Allah decides for you. may be this is the test for your faith and you'll rewarded if you redha with your fate.

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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote iman Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 13 April 2005 at 12:11am

salam islamic girl.

yes jallilah Allah hates divorse.

islamicgirl without thinking about divorce right now try this out.i think u have to be confident & talk with him in the presents of his family & show to them that u dont really care about people as much as u care about islam & show to them that u love their son but in the end he is not the only man on earth. like this u will scare them & make them think 2ice. at this point ur husband will worry that u migh really leave him. dont go after him from now like this u will make him come after u if he loves u. beliave me it works. u need to scare him by being confident & strong in wat u want.

ur sist iman

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Demographers chart the decline of a civilization by the rate of divorce.
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