Stop Letting Boys Run Wild!!!

Bismillah,

For how long and to waht extent you can keep tab on 'em?

you cant win.

Grasshopper,

I am not in this life to win, but to run the race as Allah, SWT wills.

Bismillah,

"a boy is not like a girl. a girl needs to be looked and taken care of. not a boy. a boy needs to be rough and tough. i tell, leave the boys alone, he can handle himself, but if you leave the girls alone they may slip badly. so leave the boys, but keep a close watch on the girls."

You're funny, Brother Salman!  I suspect that most of the sisters on this forum had more of a childhood like mine where they ran and played getting bumps and bruises just like the boys you are used to.  And that's what I saw in Jordan up to a point, that is until puberty or until the extended family noticed that their girls were getting grown up.

All children need protection from evil.  From the evil of the predators out there in this world and from the evils of letting them run wild, as Sister Jenni's cogent topic elucidates.  Brother Salman, I assume that you are a young man, not yet a father.  Take our advice and care for your boys when Allah, SWT blesses you with some, not from silly bumps and bruises although you should keep the peroxide and bandaids handy, but from the social deviants that seek to misguide them and from the whisperings of Shaytan that encourage them to do misguided things.

Edited by herjihad

herjihad wrote: Bismillah, "a boy is not like a girl. a girl needs to be looked and taken care of. not a boy. a boy needs to be rough and tough. i tell, leave the boys alone, he can handle himself, but if you leave the girls alone they may slip badly. so leave the boys, but keep a close watch on the girls." You're funny, Brother Salman!  I suspect that most of the sisters on this forum had more of a childhood like mine where they ran and played getting bumps and bruises just like the boys you are used to.  And that's what I saw in Jordan up to a point, that is until puberty or until the extended family noticed that their girls were getting grown up.

sister herjihad, my saying that if you leave the girls alone they may slip badly i did not mean to say that they may fall down thud ! or get bruises or such things. i actually meant to say that if you leave the girls alone they may get off the track or deviate from the track in their lives.

Salman, you really sound silly. Let your boys just have fun?? Maybe they can go to a house of prostitution and contract H.I.V. aids. That might toughen them up, until they get sick and die. This attitude is the problem in Islam doing drugs, drinking alchohol, stealing, having sex before marraige are EQUAL SINS FOR MEN AND WOMEN!!!! And parents who permit it to happen are PERMITTING SIN!!!!! Where in The Quran does it say Boys run around and be wild, girls stay home and be good????