My prayers answered for others but not for me

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   Aoa everyone ..i joined this forum .. to get answer of my question. that has been disturbing for a long time. 

Actually when ever i pray for others, its being answered .but if i pray for myself of ask something from my self it takes a very long time and in cases its not answered .. am worried what is really the matter behind this. secondly any girl who becomes my friend she gets married or engaged after few months .. it happened with me 5 times . my friends call me lucky charm for themselves.who so ever spends time with me , they become lucky, get married or engaged.  but if am talking about my self .. am a university graduate .. still my parents looking for proposal .. but couldn't find . every one in university life was after me because they think i  am beautiful, i have a good family .. am worried that then why are proposals ( if ever they come) rejects me or sometimes my parents says that you are young for getting married ..where as am 22 .different problems with different scenarios occurs ..

please some one suggest me what to do .. 

am worried alot

there were guys too after me saying that they will marry me in different times .. but they also left when time came .. am getting frustrated day by day 

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hoorain_Fatima Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Starter. Joined: 03 July 2017 Status: Offline Points: 1	Post Options Post Reply Quote hoorain_Fatima Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Topic: My prayers answered for others but not for me Posted: 03 July 2017 at 4:56pm
	Aoa everyone ..i joined this forum .. to get answer of my question. that has been disturbing for a long time. Actually when ever i pray for others, its being answered .but if i pray for myself of ask something from my self it takes a very long time and in cases its not answered .. am worried what is really the matter behind this. secondly any girl who becomes my friend she gets married or engaged after few months .. it happened with me 5 times . my friends call me lucky charm for themselves.who so ever spends time with me , they become lucky, get married or engaged. but if am talking about my self .. am a university graduate .. still my parents looking for proposal .. but couldn't find . every one in university life was after me because they think i am beautiful, i have a good family .. am worried that then why are proposals ( if ever they come) rejects me or sometimes my parents says that you are young for getting married ..where as am 22 .different problems with different scenarios occurs .. please some one suggest me what to do .. am worried alot there were guys too after me saying that they will marry me in different times .. but they also left when time came .. am getting frustrated day by day

seekshidayath Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Female Islam Joined: 26 March 2006 Location: India Status: Offline Points: 3357	Post Options Post Reply Quote seekshidayath Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 15 July 2017 at 11:51am
	As Salamu alaikum rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu And now my sister must be worrying that its so many days and no one responded to my post ! Frustrated ? Firstly sis, no one is lucky charm to anyone. Please remember whatever Allah Almighty decrees for people, whether good or otherwise, can by no means be changed. You been a lucky charm or any to anyone is all myth. We should hold a strong faith that it is all from Allah, and nothing changes His decree. All your matters were written even when you were not born. That which is decreed to us, can never be stopped by any force. Have that faith. ALso, that your marriage is also a matter of decree. Allah swt is the best planner.He knows when togive you the best. Till then continue making duas and do not despair of His mercy, as an ayah of Quran says. At present stop worrying and get your faith strong. Of the guys whoever left you, say yourself, they were not worth of you Allah swt choses a right person for you. Have faith in him. Things shall happen sometimes so soon that you won't even get time to realise whats happening around, insha Allah Till then, indulge yourselves if worthful activities, either dawah work or by been student of Quran. You shall not get much time after marriage as these days, so gain as much knowledge as you can now. Al my best wishes to you
	Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: �All the descendants of Adam are sinners, and the best of sinners are those who repent."