Girlfriend

There is this girl who I love and am dating. She is Cuban. She comes from a broken family and I come from a very good family. She has many muslim friends including my sister. This girl I love has been to the masjid a couple times. She is a Christian aswell as her family. I was recently caught at school hanging out in the car with her. The principle informed my dad. My dad now hates her and says shes a trashy person who comes from a broken family. The school has a watch on me to see if I talk to her. She knows my family doesn�t like her and says its better for us to not talk so I don�t get in trouble. This girl isn�t a muslim or she doesn�t act like it. She has been interested in learning about it. If I give her a quran I don�t know if she will read it. I have strong feels about her and hope she becomes muslim In the future so we can get married. I don�t think my parents would approve of her because she isn�t a muslim and she comes from a broken family. My dad is very gudgmental and is always preaching islam to me. I want to continue talking to her because its hard for me not to. If my parents find out I will be in so much trouble. They already took my phone and my car and everything for along time. They almost took me out of school because they don�t want me to talk to that girl .I love her to much though. I need help because I don�t know what to do. Some one give me advice on how to talk to her or approach things to her or do things. I pray that she becomes a strong muslim and her family does too so my dad can accept them. I have never had sexual relations with her but I hugged and kissed a couple times. I am scared and I fear she wont become muslim one day and my dad wont accept her. Please pray she becomes a strong muslim and her family does because I want her to be the mother of my children and a good muslim mother too. Thank you for reading. Please email me or shoot me a private message or respond and give me advice. I am scared the advice will say to drop her because I cant . I love her to much to drop her.

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abuayisha Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Muslim Joined: 05 October 1999 Location: Los Angeles Status: Offline Points: 5105	Post Options Post Reply Quote abuayisha Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Topic: Girlfriend Posted: 21 April 2017 at 7:11am
	Adnan, welcome. I suggest you take her advice, "better for us to not talk", as well as that of your parents. Do good and maybe the result will be good in the end. I pray things will end as you hope for.

adnanseif_ Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Starter. Male Joined: 17 April 2017 Location: United States Status: Offline Points: 1	Post Options Post Reply Quote adnanseif_ Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 17 April 2017 at 6:21pm
	There is this girl who I love and am dating. She is Cuban. She comes from a broken family and I come from a very good family. She has many muslim friends including my sister. This girl I love has been to the masjid a couple times. She is a Christian aswell as her family. I was recently caught at school hanging out in the car with her. The principle informed my dad. My dad now hates her and says shes a trashy person who comes from a broken family. The school has a watch on me to see if I talk to her. She knows my family doesn�t like her and says its better for us to not talk so I don�t get in trouble. This girl isn�t a muslim or she doesn�t act like it. She has been interested in learning about it. If I give her a quran I don�t know if she will read it. I have strong feels about her and hope she becomes muslim In the future so we can get married. I don�t think my parents would approve of her because she isn�t a muslim and she comes from a broken family. My dad is very gudgmental and is always preaching islam to me. I want to continue talking to her because its hard for me not to. If my parents find out I will be in so much trouble. They already took my phone and my car and everything for along time. They almost took me out of school because they don�t want me to talk to that girl .I love her to much though. I need help because I don�t know what to do. Some one give me advice on how to talk to her or approach things to her or do things. I pray that she becomes a strong muslim and her family does too so my dad can accept them. I have never had sexual relations with her but I hugged and kissed a couple times. I am scared and I fear she wont become muslim one day and my dad wont accept her. Please pray she becomes a strong muslim and her family does because I want her to be the mother of my children and a good muslim mother too. Thank you for reading. Please email me or shoot me a private message or respond and give me advice. I am scared the advice will say to drop her because I cant . I love her to much to drop her.