Sisters I need your thoughts about divorce

I hate men who has no control over his life, what a person he wants to be, his lack of knowledge in religion, his uncertainty, his action first and think later attitude, his no sincere of love and care, his selfishness, his brain works according to his own convenience. My advice: it is up to the woman who face what and if she can be happy with him or without him.

I admire a man who do not thinks about himself, but what his wife's needs, and what makes her comfort and happy and respectful, would comeback to him. He acts according to Islamic teaching, of patience and loving, as exampled by the Prophet SAW. He provides, he teach, and not being silly. But my understanding of these, is too late, so i hope other women would marry right and not wrong.

Edited by mami - 10 March 2015 at 8:53am

As Salaam Alaykum:  It's with great sadness that I report that my husband and I have not been able to work out our differences on him marrying another woman, therefore, we are parting ways.  He told me that he's going to marry her soon and that he is not divorcing me.  I'm moving out this Friday at his insistence and I'm just beside myself as I want to do the right thing islamically. 

assalammualaikum
You have no problem. The guy is a piece of gabbage. Be glad he is OUT of your life. From now on be VERRY HAPPY that you dont live with an I D iot.
Celebrate being a true woman with value, class, respect. Dont accept just any man but a man with good character.
Please no more whinning.