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What do you say about that serving husband, prostrating husband ( that hadis), half a man's testimony, Prophet pbuh saying women r deficient in mind and religion.? Isn't it discrimination b/w genders? Allah would not forgive a women who is best to her parents but not to husband , ( even if she is fighting the husband to let her work for example) even then Allah wud punish her for displeasing husband and going against his wishes even if she is merely demanding her rights? Could u just tell me its justice? And one more thing does the Quran, from A to Z addresses only men?
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Assalamalecum,prophet Muhammad S.A.W (pbuh) always prommoted respect of women.from where u heard these incidents??? I tell u one-therewas a young girl, her marriage was ffixed against her will, she then complained to the prophet and the prophet there itself dissolve that marriage.Prophet Said that the mother is the person in this world who deserves our love the most.Prophet said whoever raises the two daughters with love and affection till their youth, on judgement day will b very close to me.where it is written prostrating husband that's wrong wrong wrong.we all have to bow only in front of Allah.moreover again the role of a muslim comes if both husband and wife reads Quran daily then many problems will be solved, eg if wife refuse to mate with husband, husband on his part should b patient.that's wrong that Allah would not forgive if u r good to parents but not to husband,,but if u r arrogant or u torture him and not repent then Allah may not forgive, u have to be good both to parents(As Allah commands us to be good to parents in ch 17 v 23-24), and to husband, being good doesn't mean that u have to serve him like boss.once again I say understand Quran and read authentic hadeeth.
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What if the husband tortures wife...? If he is arrogant? He wouldn't be punished. Disobeying a husband leads to jahannum even if that is to fulfill a mother's task and he doesn't let u without any reason. Prophet said that the person would be close to me ... He said this about only men and not women .. What abt women, who helps rather have a main part in raising children.. But still no awards for them for raising daughters. U know that incident when there was a people of a place who were all very bad.. Angel asked who among this would enter Hannah. Allah said there is one person. Angel followed that person to see what good he does and found that he served his mother to an extreme. But u see this respect of mother's is for sons only.. For a daughter she is always taught to serve the husband however he is.. U know serving a mother u feel gud becz she is elder than u and has brought u up and senior in relations.. But in a relation which promotes equality such as marriage.. Why does one spouse asked to serve the other .. If he works then she also works at home so u see both work.. Both get I'll and tired then why does one have to serve other and obey him.. Even if she is a spiritual and sane Muslim .. Why she has to listen to his yelling and scolding .. While a wife cannot do so when he does something wrong.. ? If she serves the mother to extreme and husband doesn't want her to .. But she disobeys and serves her old and ill mother the way the man in the incident did .. But still would u expect her to be called jannnati the way Allah called the man in the incident as she has disobeyed her husband? Even if the husband in this case is wrong?
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Assalamalecum,if husband tortures wife or he is arrogant towards him, Allah hates him because Allah in ch 16 v 23 of Quran says Allah hates the arrogant person.now I m quoting a hadeeth as I heard from a maulana that prophet Muhammad ( pbuh) once said if a wife is obedient to a husband, pray 5 time salaah, and do all obligations, all 8 gates of paradise are opened to her.obligation of love for mother is for both men and women.prophet Muhammad S.A.W (pbuh) said one of the best believers isthe one who is good to hhis relatives, especially the wife.hazrat aisha (may Allah be plzd with her) said Prophet Muhammad S.A.W (pbuh) himself did lot of household work think the leader of prophets (pbut all), the man whom Allah loves the most,the best man ever till the end himself did household work and respected women which gives the biggest message for respect of women to all of us.but unfortunately its the people who had created innovations and lead to falz beliefs for Allah only one thing matters I.e taqwa.Allah in ch 49 v 13 says Allah created mankind from a couple and divided us into different regions, colours and the best among you is the one who is close to Allah, who posess righteousness.
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Prophet said wife will never see paradise if she ask for divorce. What abt men who give divorce without any reason or for another woman.?
And u yourself said, wife has to be obedient to husband, is it in all matters? And what about husband who is doing something wrong, and wife corrects him, but there is nothing that husband should obey. Islam talks like women are too senseless and st**id.
What if the mother calls the daughter and husband asks her not to go without any reason, what then?
What about wives and women not being allowed to pursue their dreams, if they want to work or do something or go abroad? They have to obey. While men can live and enjoy and go and do whatever they want.
Husband can even live without wife abroad for six months .. :-(
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Assalamalecum,remember one thing, Allah in Quran in ch 4 v 40 says Allah is never unjust even in the least degree.moreover do you know there is a seperate surah named Surah An Nisa I.e ch 4.this automatically indicares the importance of women in islam and Allah says in ch 3 v 160 if Allah is with u none can overcome u if Allah forsakes u then there is who can save u let the believers put trust in Allah.therefore if u trust Allah u willb successful both in this world n hhereafter in Sha Allah.
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Allah in ch 33 v 35 says that for every believing men n women there is reward of forgiveness from Allah.Allah in ch 48 v 5 says Allah will admit righteuos men n women to jannah.
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I know .. But if a situation arises in which she has to do what seems right .. Even if it means leaving husband for the mother's sake.. Would Allah understand? That even though she left her husband , she did that for the right thing?
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