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    Posted: 30 November 2013 at 12:03am
What's your view on joining muslim dating sites for making new online chatting friends?
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I need to confess that recently a friend introduces me to a muslim dating site and out of curiosity, I signed up for an account and started chatting and making new friends. Any one else also joined a dating site?
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that it should be avoided

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Try and avoid these 'Online dating sites'. You never know who's on the other side, and what his/her intention are. Also it might lead to a sin. It is better to meet someone in person, only if you intend to get married. Allah knows best!
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Just like using this website, you should be fearful of falling into sinful behavior. Meeting a brother/sister online for marriage you can easily go down a dangerous road of falling in love and heart break. This sort of fitnah destroys people and families, so be very careful. You should be very careful and try your best to follow the Sunnah which is to have the sister's wali (protector) make sure it is ok for the man and girl to talk and get to know each other and that they are not talking about inappropriate things or be alone together.

Do not give your heart away and share your feelings as to make the other person get attached to you either. It is hard to meet someone on the internet that is nearby to you where you can go easily meet them and their family. So keep in mind if you talk to someone at a long distance, i.e. overseas, you will have a very hard and long journey ahead of you.

But if you are aware of the dangers, tread lightly and enjoy the interaction. For Instance, try out http://www.freedatinghelper.com/reviews/islamicmarriage-com/ if you want. It does its best to follow the Islamic way.


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i think we should avoid it as my past experience it wont give you any benefit.
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