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Quote Nazz Replybullet Topic: I need help please
    Posted: 02 January 2013 at 3:09am
Good day to all reading this

I am in desperate need of all duas. I am unmarried and pregnant. The father of the child left me and I wanted to do the right thing and marry him. He is not abusive or anything, I just feel abandoned. I am lonely and heartbroken and sometimes I feel I cant move forward... I am constantly asking Allah (SWT) forgiveness. And also making dua for sabr. My heart is heavy..... Please help.
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Quote Nausheen Replybullet Posted: 08 January 2013 at 7:11pm
Assalamualiakum wa rahmatullah wa barkatuhu dear sister,

Im sorry for your situation.

Turn to Allah in sincere repentance and seek guidance through istekharah and night vigil.

Would want to remind you that we are advised against making dua for sabr. Instead make dua for Afiyah.

"Allahumma maghfirli, wa arhamni, wa aafini wa addini warzuqni"

Wanu nazzilu minal Qurani ma huwa
Shafaa un wa rahmatun lil mo'mineena
wa la yaziduzzalimeena illa khasara.
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Quote anastasia Replybullet Posted: 09 July 2013 at 2:49pm
ask Allah for forgiveness,and seek help from him,what ever as happend it was in the past,get a grip on ur lyf,u should be nw financialy and mentaly stable as u have to raise a child ,if u r not stable hw can u give the baby a better future,forget about the father ,he wil come if he wants to,u have a big responsibility nw make ur child a better muslim,may Allah help u,and he will forgive u
In shaa Allah
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