Your Ideal Wife

Abeer23 wrote: akmf, I don't shake hands with men and I've never had a problem with my male employers, co-workers, or guys that just stop me to ask about Islam.  They're actually really cool about it.  The ONLY men that have ever complained about me not shaking their hands were muslim men (this is not a joke).  Salaam

Assuming you are telling the truth, the Muslim men which you have met are a very small percentage of Muslims.

And yes, once given freedom to move out of home, many (if not most) of the women (especially, those who adopt Western culture) start acting like prostitutes, i.e they wear improper dresses to fool stupid boys (I don't feel sypathy for them, either). And don't deny it, you know it as you have been seeing that in the West.

And yes, once given freedom to move out of home, many (if not most) of the women (especially, those who adopt Western culture) start acting like prostitutes, i.e they wear improper dresses to fool stupid boys (I don't feel sypathy for them, either). And don't deny it, you know it as you have been seeing that in the West.

As salamu alaikum,

Some sisters "forget themselves" when given freedom to move about and be on their own without a chaperon.  However, such women already had a disease in their hearts long before leaving home.  Many of these women, though brought up in Muslim families, do not have proper understanding of their religion (I know plenty of sisters like this). 

Don't get me wrong I believe fathers, brothers, husbands, etc. need to be extra protective of the women under their care, especially when living in the West.  And mothers need to educate their daughters as to how to live in accordance with Islamic etiquettes, whether they're inside or outside of the home.   This is a duty given to us by Allah Ta'ala. 

Salaam