husband wife relation

dear sir ,
Assalam o alium wa rahm,ullah
i need to ask the question n the reply in detail .
we are married and often i ask my wife to do the things that we had seen in European countries like the licking of the Pennis and i want to lick her body parts especially the ****** n like that areas , but we affraid that might be we hada great sin and this is not allowed in islam but due to hesitation never asked this question from any other , so now i am asking to you kindly give me the reply ,
if it is HARAM then tell us what should we have to do for TOUBAH , or if it is allowed the what are the limits for this relation ,
will wait for your reply , please reply on my e-mail address ,

Jazak Allah

Edited by icforumadmin - 16 May 2012 at 8:27pm