marriage to a muslim

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    There are many people who are not born muslims, I'm sure there will be people who accept you. Like otheres said, some will and some wont. Insha'Allah you will meet poeple who do 

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aishag88 Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Groupie Joined: 27 August 2005 Location: United States Status: Offline Points: 97	Post Options Post Reply Quote aishag88 Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Topic: marriage to a muslim Posted: 17 November 2005 at 12:16pm
	There are many people who are not born muslims, I'm sure there will be people who accept you. Like otheres said, some will and some wont. Insha'Allah you will meet poeple who do Edited by aishag88

deenadict Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Starter Joined: 27 August 2005 Status: Offline Points: 6	Post Options Post Reply Quote deenadict Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 14 November 2005 at 5:13am
	Assalam alaikum All Sister Fiza Good Job. MAy Allah guide me, MArie, you and those who read our participations.

deenadict Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Starter Joined: 27 August 2005 Status: Offline Points: 6	Post Options Post Reply Quote deenadict Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 12 November 2005 at 11:34pm
	Sister,herjihad What you said is right.

herjihad Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Joined: 26 January 2005 Location: United States Status: Offline Points: 2473	Post Options Post Reply Quote herjihad Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 29 October 2005 at 4:05am
	Bismillah, (In the name of Allah, God), Marie, You are asking if people will accept you. Some will and some won't. The important people may be his family. Who in his family are important to him, and will they accept you? Some families are cruel to their daughters-in-law even if they are girls from their own village or families. Maybe they think it's their job to test them this way. Some will be kind when they see you showing respect to them and not "stealing" their son. But showing respect is different for different families. It is a long, complicated topic which you must learn about through time. Maybe if you research his culture and not just his religion you will be more succesful in achieving your goals. And will your family accept him and his family? Do you need them to?
	Al-Hamdulillah (From a Married Muslimah) La Howla Wa La Quwata Illa BiLLah - There is no Effort or Power except with Allah's Will.

Fiza Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Starter Joined: 28 October 2005 Location: Australia Status: Offline Points: 1	Post Options Post Reply Quote Fiza Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 28 October 2005 at 6:34am
	Sister Marie, Being in love is the best thing that can happen to a human being but changing religion is a very big decision not just for yourself but it affects your life style and your family members.Most importantly think this matter through throughly because this is a major step in your life.I realise that when you love someone you will do anything for them but if you want to change your religion (my personal belief) than do it for the love of Allah then for the love of your boyfriend.Just imagine if something ever happened to your boyfriend then you might think that you converting to islam was for nothing and soon it will be a mistake which is the biggest gift their is in islam to be a muslim.Please think carefully before making decisions. Fe'aman Allah Edited by Fiza

rudy Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Joined: 05 October 2005 Location: Morocco Status: Offline Points: 146	Post Options Post Reply Quote rudy Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 20 October 2005 at 5:09am
	Its plain stupidly mother of hypocrisy to convert to another religion for the sake of love 2 please your mate - peace - rudy
	If we have no peace, it is because we have forgotten that we belong to each other. Mother Teresa

Sajid2003 Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Newbie Joined: 19 September 2005 Location: Sudan Status: Offline Points: 10	Post Options Post Reply Quote Sajid2003 Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 20 October 2005 at 2:39am
	hi sister, First of all I would like to take a permission to start commenting on what Sarkaranwar has said. I have great doubts that this Sarkar is a Muslim, cause he was persistent and keen to let our sister" Marie" to have a wrong idea about islam and even to hate it, wat he has said is in way athe spirt of Islam, even our prophet Mohamad had a christian wife, there is no any contradicion if a Muslim marries a christian lady, and who told you that Islam prefer that a Muslim should not marry a woman from " The people of the book" IN WHICH REFERENCE OF TEXT BOOK YOU FOUND THAT, on the contrary it's highly commendable if the a person likes that woman and she likes him, cause it's probable that she convert to Islam by his help, thereby he will get high reward from Allah " Swt". I know there are some non Muslim who work under cover pretending that they are Muslims, and their aim is to deface and defame Islam so that people and potential converters to our religion will retreat and change their mind to covert to Islam, and those non Muslims have wrong idea about Islam. Sister Marie, marrie him (if u really love him) but plan to your life " as a Christian living in a muslim automosphere, and be sure you are not getting any harm " being a chrisian" mean while before and after marriage read thoroughly about Islam, and ask him if u have doubts with regards to any issue. Good Luck,

deenadict Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Starter Joined: 27 August 2005 Status: Offline Points: 6	Post Options Post Reply Quote deenadict Report Post Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: 06 September 2005 at 4:31am
	Assalam alaikum All Dear Ason That's true but I gave the meaning in brackets and that is what has practiced by the prophet.