MY HUSBAND BETRAYED ME

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   AS SALAMU ALAIKUM 

IM IN NEED OF SOME SERIOUS HELP WITH KNOWLEGE. B4 I TOOK MY SHAHADA MY FATHER BOUGHT ME A HOME. I MET MY HUSBAND AND AT THAT TIME I HAD BEEN LIVING IN THE HOME FOR 6YRS WITH MY DAD AND 2 SONS I HAD FALLEN BEHIND ON MY MORTGAGE, I EXPLAINED THE SITUATION TO MY HUSBAND B4 WE GOT MARRIED AND HE INSISTED IN HELPING ME. HE WANTED ME TO SELL BUT I WAS NOT COMFORTABLE WITH DOING THAT SO WE MANNEGED 2 SAVE THE HOME ADDING HIM TO THE MORTGAGE BY REFINANCING. THIS WAS 4YRS AGO, LAST YEAR HE FELL BEHIND THE MORTGAGE AND THE HOME IS IN FORCLOSURE AGAIN, I AGREED THAT IF WE SAVE THE HOME WE WOULD SELL IT. HE WAS EXPRESSING 2 ME THAT HE WANTS OUT BECAUSE OF THE RIBA, SO NOW AFTER WAITING FOR OVER A YEAR THE BANK SENDS US OUR FINAL LOAN MODIFICATION. WITHOUT CONSULTING WITH ME AND MY DAD MY HUSBAND DESIDED THAT HES NOT SIGNING THE PAPERS AND IS WALKING AWAY AND IM NOW GOING TO LOSE MY HOME. KEEP IN MIND THAT THE LAST 4YRS ME AND MY DAD WAS HELPING WITH THE PAYMENTS MY HUSBAND WAS NOT PAYING ALONE, HE PAID OFF HIS CREDIT CARDS AND TRUCK. HE SAYS HE STILL WANTS 2B WITH ME BUT I JUST CANT UNDERSTAND HOW CAN HE BETRAY  ME LIKE THIS. I TRUSTED HIM. MY FATHER PLEADED WITH HIM NOT 2 DO THIS AND HE SAID HES NOT SIGNING ANYMORE AND HE GOT THIS INFORMATION FROM A BROTHER THAT TOLD HIM HE MUST LEAVE THIS HOME ASAP AND PUT US IN ANOTHER HOME. I DONT WANT TO LOSE MY HOME JUST LIKE THAT, WE AGREED TO SELL BUT HE DISREGARDED THAT AGREEMENT. IM SCARED AND FEAR THAT I WILL NOT BE ABLE TO FORGIVE HIM AND GIVE HIM HIS RIGHTS AS MY HUSBAND. PLEASE ADVISE ME QUICKLY.

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	AS SALAMU ALAIKUM IM IN NEED OF SOME SERIOUS HELP WITH KNOWLEGE. B4 I TOOK MY SHAHADA MY FATHER BOUGHT ME A HOME. I MET MY HUSBAND AND AT THAT TIME I HAD BEEN LIVING IN THE HOME FOR 6YRS WITH MY DAD AND 2 SONS I HAD FALLEN BEHIND ON MY MORTGAGE, I EXPLAINED THE SITUATION TO MY HUSBAND B4 WE GOT MARRIED AND HE INSISTED IN HELPING ME. HE WANTED ME TO SELL BUT I WAS NOT COMFORTABLE WITH DOING THAT SO WE MANNEGED 2 SAVE THE HOME ADDING HIM TO THE MORTGAGE BY REFINANCING. THIS WAS 4YRS AGO, LAST YEAR HE FELL BEHIND THE MORTGAGE AND THE HOME IS IN FORCLOSURE AGAIN, I AGREED THAT IF WE SAVE THE HOME WE WOULD SELL IT. HE WAS EXPRESSING 2 ME THAT HE WANTS OUT BECAUSE OF THE RIBA, SO NOW AFTER WAITING FOR OVER A YEAR THE BANK SENDS US OUR FINAL LOAN MODIFICATION. WITHOUT CONSULTING WITH ME AND MY DAD MY HUSBAND DESIDED THAT HES NOT SIGNING THE PAPERS AND IS WALKING AWAY AND IM NOW GOING TO LOSE MY HOME. KEEP IN MIND THAT THE LAST 4YRS ME AND MY DAD WAS HELPING WITH THE PAYMENTS MY HUSBAND WAS NOT PAYING ALONE, HE PAID OFF HIS CREDIT CARDS AND TRUCK. HE SAYS HE STILL WANTS 2B WITH ME BUT I JUST CANT UNDERSTAND HOW CAN HE BETRAY ME LIKE THIS. I TRUSTED HIM. MY FATHER PLEADED WITH HIM NOT 2 DO THIS AND HE SAID HES NOT SIGNING ANYMORE AND HE GOT THIS INFORMATION FROM A BROTHER THAT TOLD HIM HE MUST LEAVE THIS HOME ASAP AND PUT US IN ANOTHER HOME. I DONT WANT TO LOSE MY HOME JUST LIKE THAT, WE AGREED TO SELL BUT HE DISREGARDED THAT AGREEMENT. IM SCARED AND FEAR THAT I WILL NOT BE ABLE TO FORGIVE HIM AND GIVE HIM HIS RIGHTS AS MY HUSBAND. PLEASE ADVISE ME QUICKLY.