Help me to Understand

 

Also sis, you can be active here. You can find many friends here. Insha Allah, i wish to top your list of friends

 

Am sure, every reader of this thread, shall make duas for you. Stay strong sis. You can even PM me.

 

Remember me in your duas as well

 

 

 

I not sure if this again is a woman only section.However with everybody's permission i would like to say the solution to your problem is GOD and him alone.We should seek GOD and GOD alone in our lives.Day and night we should commemorate him,praise him,thank him for even the smallest thing we see  in our life.Tell ourselves a million times if need be that we need only GOD and we are here only to worship him alone.This is the first and foremost priority.Our only mission is to please our Lord and redeem ourselves so that we attain salvation and then eternal paradise.Everything else is secondary.As we are weak humanbeings,i understand you feeling lonely and helpless.Everybody is like that,including me.I feel lonely too and also worry sometimes but if we persist in our worries that means we do not trust GOD.It means that we havent submitted to his will.It means that we are not appreciative of the other things that we have in our lives.And finally it simply means that we are objecting GOD.Anything negetive in our minds are always from Satan.This is why remembering GOD while standing,walking and sitting is very important.The verse in the Quran is there for a good reason.Problems do come,tests do come,even the messengers of GOD were tested.So how did they prevail??!!ABSOLUTE TRUST IN GOD!Even when disaster seemed right in front of their faces,they still thot "NO,my GOD will protect me or help me".These are the true believers.I and you should strive to attain that level of certainity and trust in GOD.Only then,fear will not touch us.What i think u shud be praying now is not for a partner but for certainty and strength in your faith.This is what i try to pray.Nothing else matters,coz we leave this world with nothing.Our jobs,our spouses,our money,our children nothing goes with us.We leave it all here.God alone is there always.Once we  attain the certainty and strength of faith you will see how God's promise comes true.God knows your innermost thots.God knows your needs more than you do.When u put him above everything else,even if you dont specifically ask,GOD will give you whats best for u.He is all knowing,the most merciful.Keep telling urself day and night,when you wake up,on the way to work,during ur breaks,on the way back home etc that GOD alone is your refuge and that GOD is there always with you closer than your jugular vein.Your life will change,happiness will come to you.God's mercy will be showered upon you.This is God's promise and who is best in keeping his promise other than GOD?!!

 

[50:16] We created the human, and we know what he whispers to himself. We are closer to him than his jugular vein.