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Chrysalis
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Posted: 25 January 2010 at 9:15am |
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As'sallamualaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu,
In line with SeeksHidayath's suggestion that we make the "Youth" section more active, thought to post some effective ways to deal with hurt, sorrow, depression, sadness - you name it ! Well, all Muslims - young and old alike go through sad moments in life, but I guess its difficult for you young muslims to deal with such issues. Especially if you have a heard time expressing yourself . . . yes, spilling your inner-most secrets to others helps. . . but try and avoid that unless the person is a VERY RELIABLE friend, or a parent, or sibling. Don't blindly trust "all" "friends" with your inner feelings, especially if it is something you wish to keep secret. The BEST way to vent and unleash that fury of emotions, IS TO ALLAH s.w.t. However, don't utter any words of kufr, shirk or blasphemy - some of us tend to get carried away with our complaints to Allah, and "why did You do this" "You always do this to me" . . . . Allah loves us 70 times more than our own mothers !!! (Sahih Hadith) Would a mother let her child remain in sorrow ? No ! So put your trust in Allah, and talk to Him.
The following Duas have really good wordings, so make sure you read these duas. Print them out, and keep them with you - to recite whenever you feel down. (I do not have sources for these duas with me at the moment, will InshAllah post later if I can find. However, the meanings still are very poignant & relevant) Supplication for one afflicted by a calamity:
Indeed Allaah rebukes due to negligence and slackness, but take to determination and caution, and if a matter should overtake you then say: �Allaah is sufficient for me, and how fine a trustee (He is).�Sometimes when we think our Duas are bieng ignored (which they are not ! Its probably not the right thing for you, in either duniya (this world) or aakhirah (hereafter). We tend to focus on Duniyah, and forget that maybe our Dua was not fulfilled because it could be bad for our Deen, Imaan or aakhirah. ) some of us start to waver in our Faith & Imaan. If that happens, (God Forbid) - don't just sit there, do something about it: Supplication for one afflicted with doubt in his faith
Supplication for anxiety and sorrow
If your distressed state is giving you bad dreams:
InshAllah I hope this helps someone out there in thier time of distress. If these Duas do help, please make Dua for me as well. . PS: All duas are from Qur'an & Sunnah according to the website I got them from. This is a very good compilation, so do pass this around and get the reward. InshAllah http://www.makedua.com/ Edited by Chrysalis - 25 January 2010 at 9:35am |
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"O Lord, forgive me, my parents and Muslims in the Hereafter. O Lord, show mercy on them as they showed mercy to me when I was young."
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seekshidayath
Senior Member Female Islam Joined: 26 March 2006 Location: India Status: Offline Points: 3357 |
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As Salamu Alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh
That was a good sharing Sis.
Missing you !
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Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: �All the descendants of Adam are sinners, and the best of sinners are those who repent."
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fais
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salam
Jaza jaza kalla hu khair
excellent
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