Marraige proposal for a relegious girl

martha wrote: Salams, Fais, when anyone makes personal comments I reply as I see fit. I am not a doormat for any. I am obedient to ALlah and follow Islam as I understand it. If I make errors then if I understand where I am wrong then I will change that.As to what you feel in this thread I do not see errors I should change. I will let you know if that changes. So please let it rest now. Brother, I gave you lot of time on and off the forum. I listened to you as I do with all others. I only ever see myself as an auntie to others and that was the friendship we had. Your posts yesterday and removal of some of your comments surprised me. You say I am too British. Wow, you are not too Indian then? I learn a lot about other cultures by living with people not of my own. I do not rely on comments from only those of my culture. I was not too British to marry with an asian man. It does not matter what colour or race people are from. First I don't agree with that way of thinking, but most of all it is un-Islamic. I can tell you I have been really shocked by many asians that will not marry a white woman unless they want a visa/passport. This does not mean there are not nice asians, lol. I know some very nice ones. As regarding the posts..you made your own comments and made them public. Why remove them? If you feel that your words were not right then fine, acknowledge that, not remove them. REally I do not understand this. I have a great deal of patience with people, I think carefully of my words most of the time before I write them. So I do not understand your request that I remove them. Many here are very rude. But I guess what you mean here is that muslim women should not at times do the same. Lol, women can be tough...but maybe because some men are weak and need it! (I am not suggesting you are weak, it is only an example) I have no ill feeling towards you whatsoever. I really hope it goes well for you. I hope you can wish the same for me. Perhaps in the future then we should be careful when we reply here so this situation does not occur again. But might I suggest you don't say again that I am not a good muslim? That is SO haram! It is not good to try to remove the splinter from my eye when you have a plank in your own. All the best.

Fais,
'but someone does this to sound stylish looks so cheap'

So how can you tell on this forum how people sound!!??

And certainly I never portray myself as anything other than what I am, as this is what you suggested in your post to FOH's

If I word myself well its not wrong, and who has ever said I have a good image here? You are trying to paint a false picture to others about me by posting such nonsense.

You are new here, and I guess you need to build up a good raport with others.

Salam Fais,

Sigh...Eye waz awey frum forearm fur sum daiz becuse I um tirad ov sum peeple. Bot I um bak nouw.

Iz miy gramer beta nouw? Bot maiybee eye um ah duc..qwac qwac, bot I um a harppy duc. Av u gud dai

salam

Edited by fais - 13 December 2009 at 12:45am