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ZamanH
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What makes you think so?? I strongly suspect that you know what you said is untrue (you want to embarass me or something) |
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An enemy of an enemy is a fickle friend.
There will be more women in hell than men. ..for persecution is worse than the slaughter of the enemy..(Quran 2:191) Heaven lies under mother's feet |
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Lameese
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ZamanH, Well, you say there is nothing wrong with Pologamy and infact it is needed. So, to you, you can just get another one if you cannot "be who you are not" with her. Trying to emabrrass you? Using your words? nahhhhh.
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You Shall be together when the white wings of death scatter your days.
Let the winds of the heavens dance between you. Love one another and let it be a moving sea between the the shores of your soul |
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ZamanH
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Well, yes. How does that relate to "trading them out'?? I will keep the first one with me as well. I thought you wanted to compare me with those who do, they are rare (I think you know it), and I am not like them. |
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An enemy of an enemy is a fickle friend.
There will be more women in hell than men. ..for persecution is worse than the slaughter of the enemy..(Quran 2:191) Heaven lies under mother's feet |
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Lameese
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Well, if you "cannot be who you are" then you would have to "trade them out". Or I assume you would be lying to one and pretending to not be who you are and not lying to the other. They are rare? Have you lookd at the Saudi Arabia lately?
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You Shall be together when the white wings of death scatter your days.
Let the winds of the heavens dance between you. Love one another and let it be a moving sea between the the shores of your soul |
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Arabian
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ummziba, |
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ummziba
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Arabian, You are free to do as you like. Each person is responsible for his or her own actions. Practicing Muslim men and women are not looking for sexual experiences (most especially not with multiple partners). Practicing Muslim men and women are looking for pious, kind mates who will be good life partners and help them increase their deen (religion), not someone who will help them down the slippery slope to hell. For Muslims, zina (sex outside of legal marriage) is a huge sin. Your "prowess" with women doesn't impress me. I'm sure it doesn't ultimately impress the women you make "absolutely fall in love with" you and then dump either. You are surely posting on the wrong forum if you think your boasting about your sexual predation of women is appropriate or even appreciated by anyone here. Peace, ummziba. |
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Sticks and stones may break my bones, but your words...they break my soul ~
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Arabian
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ummziba, Edited by Arabian |
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Israfil
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In the name of God, the merciful compassionate
It appears that you are making a comment, like sister Ummziba has mentioned, in the case of "secual attaction." In the Islamic setting the first goal of a man is not to find a woman who he can be secually attracted to. The first goal of a man is to find a companion who shares like interest, and most importantly one who can increases ones Iman with. You apparently noting your excapdes across the world and wht so-called different women want. This is still unimpressive. You claim to have noted a few women but the fact remains, as you mention "to your experience." Everyones experience is different. As I have seen in many women where I live most adult and mature women more important would like a kind and caring man because in the end (Inshallah) as we get old that is what matters most not what makes a women feel sexually attracted to man. That is not only a shallow view but a view which totally is not in accordance with Islam. No offense buddy but I've been there and done that. I have sexual intercourse with many women (prior to my conversion) and I find that unfulfilling. Most women "according to my experience" want a man who is kind, caring, ambitious a commnicative person and a person who is humble. All these attributes makes what a real man is...OOPS I forgot for some of you who are indeed hard of hearing these are traits in which the Qur'an has noted. |
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