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  Yes, yes. "Then which of the favours of your Lord will you deny?" Surah Al Rahman 55

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SALAM,
pray for me all,even i want a good wife now,who will be like hurul ain.
 
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Nur: your husband likes to vacuum... mashallah

May all women be so blessed to have a husband who helps out.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote martha Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 07 November 2009 at 6:34am
Yes, it would be a blessing. As a fair number of men live in cloud cuckoo land I doubt they even know what a vacuum cleaner is, lol. In some places even some women don't have a clue either, and are left to sweep their way through life.

Certainly women don't generally get appreciated for the home-work they do day in day out. ANd if wages were paid to each woman for the 24/7 care of the home and children then they would be SO wealthy, lol.     
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This is no doubt a sweeping generalization, but I once visited West Africa and if Africa is the origin of man, it is also the genesis of lazy men.  Everywhere you look women are working, carry water, selling, washing, sweeping, and men are lounging, sitting, sleeping or drinking tea. 
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote martha Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 07 November 2009 at 8:16am
Abuay -'This is no doubt a sweeping generalization'



Abuay-'if Africa is the origin of man, it is also the genesis of lazy men. Everywhere you look women are working, carry water, selling, washing, sweeping, and men are lounging, sitting, sleeping or drinking tea'



Nice one bro!
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Originally posted by Hayfa Hayfa wrote:

Nur: your husband likes to vacuum... mashallah

May all women be so blessed to have a husband who helps out.


I believe all human beings have their own speciality, strengths and weaknesses.

My husband loves the vacuum cleaner but at the same time he does not know how to cook. While my own brother loves to cook and always help his wife in the kitchen.

I have my own weaknesses, cooking is not my speciality. But where the education of my children is concerned, I take charge, while my husband leave that to me.

We husbands and wives should not compete but to complement each other. It will strengthen our marriage and of course giving and taking is a must in any marriage.
Ilahi Anta Maksudi, Wa Redhaka Mathlubi - Oh Allah, You are my destination, Your Pleasure is my Intention.
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Abuyisha, very true indeed. LOL. And at the same time they have babies on their backs while doing those things.I mean the women...............
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