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ZamanH
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Posted: 01 June 2005 at 10:41am |
...he said: Lo! this
is of the guile of you women. Lo! the guile of you is very great... (Quran 12:28)
Following link is a must-read for all the men () because according to this article (which is balanced but non-islamic) "90% of the time women are correct when they suspect their husband of infidelity and only 15% time men are able to catch on their wive's infidelity". http://spirituality.indiatimes.com/quickies/msid-1124490.c ms. There is some problem in the post service, therefore, .c ms in the end =.cms Edited by ZamanH |
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An enemy of an enemy is a fickle friend.
There will be more women in hell than men. ..for persecution is worse than the slaughter of the enemy..(Quran 2:191) Heaven lies under mother's feet |
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Israfil
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How does this refer to the post you have to be more explanatory
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ZamanH
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"How does this refer to the post you have to be more explanatory"
First of all, I did not understand clearly what you mean. If you are ask ing me about the relevance of the link to my post, my point was men are not good at catching their deceiving wives (as the article on the link also suggests). |
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An enemy of an enemy is a fickle friend.
There will be more women in hell than men. ..for persecution is worse than the slaughter of the enemy..(Quran 2:191) Heaven lies under mother's feet |
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kim!
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If Men are not good at catching their deceiving wives, the men were probably too stupid to be with, anyway.
One assumes that if a wife is cheating, then there is a reason. SOmetimes it's her fault, other times it's his fault. Some men ARE actually fairly stupid, whatever you would like to believe. WOmen are better at catching thier cheating husbands because the men are probably too stupid to hide it particularly well. When men cheat, it may be his fault, it may be her fault, or both. I don't know why you brought this topic up - are you trying to push the line that women are weak and evil and stupid? Because the very same topic can be turned around to provbe the same thing about men. Kim... Edited by kim! |
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ZamanH
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No, just matter of factly. By the way, I don't accept man betrays his wife/group by having sex outside marriage/group, unlike women. Sex is not just a biological activity, at least in human beings it is used to convey the message of living together. Unless incest is allowed, one of them has to leave the original home to live with the other partner. In almost all the societies, women move to the house of their spouses (and not the man). And a woman cannot possibly live in more than one house at the same time, thus she cannot promise more than one man of living together with him. A man can only betray his wife, if he refuses to provide for her or protect her, even though he can do so. Edited by ZamanH |
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kim!
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?????????????????????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!! Are you saying a man can sleep around but a woman mustn't?
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ZamanH
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No, not at all. If a man has sex outside marriage, at worst, he can be deceiving another man, but not his own wife. I was justifying polygamy. |
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An enemy of an enemy is a fickle friend.
There will be more women in hell than men. ..for persecution is worse than the slaughter of the enemy..(Quran 2:191) Heaven lies under mother's feet |
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Jenni
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Zamanh it seems to me that you don't really like women. And most men
who cheat don't simply marry another woman, they sleep with another
woman outside of marraige or solicit prostitutes which is popular in
India.Risking the health and life of thier wife. I think Muslim women
very rarely cheat on thier husbands, all of my friends and family are
devouted to thier husbands in spite of some of the men being lazy,
unnapreciative, and not meeting thier islamic duties as husbands. They
would divorce before cheating.
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You cant be a good muslim if you are not decent and have a cold heart. Be a decent and kind person and care for women and children and the elderly.
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