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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Dr. Aslam Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 22 June 2018 at 6:49pm
Consult a doctor and try to control as much as you can. You are the only one who can control it.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Darthtyranius Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: 22 June 2018 at 8:04am
I will try..but literally everytime i go back to this sin..i can't concentrate on my studies..even if i doing something to keep myself busy,the lust eventually takes over.can you give me some examples of what i should do to keep the lust at bay?
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It happens. It happens even to the most pious people. Please try to engage in work that keeps you busy and does not give you enough solitary time. Tire yourself through physical exercise and keep on asking Allah with or without tears to forgive you.
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I am a 20 year old male student.i have been masturbating for the last 8 years..i have tried to stop myself but eventually i give in to the lust..this bad habit has affected my life adversely..Before i started this habit,i was an excellent student with a great photographic memory.over the years my mental capabilities have reduced to a dangerous degree..i can't focus and concentrate on anything for a longer period..i can't study properly.i have like zero social skills..i am experiencing hairloss also and my eyesight has also become really weak.
When i am try to stop myself from masturbating,i have like this period of severe urge where i can't think of anything except masturbating and porn..this urge grows stronger with each day and eventually leads to this sin.
When i try to ask Allah for forgiveness,i can't even shed a single tear.my prayers have become empty.i think Allah has given up on me..
i recently masturbated during a fast in Ramadhan and i am overcome by this severe guilt..i knew that it was wrong but still i couldn't stop myself.. 
Guys please is there any way to stop myself from this bad habit and to reverse the harmful effects??please i need help..i would really appreciate it. 
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