Your Ideal Wife

Angela wrote: Anyone notice Brother123 hasn't logged in since October?  I doubt he has even seen any of these posts.

Yea, I think he got bored with the topic

Assalamu Alaikum

candor wrote: Assuming you are telling the truth, the Muslim men which you have met are a very small percentage of Muslims. And yes, once given freedom to move out of home, many (if not most) of the women (especially, those who adopt Western culture) start acting like prostitutes, i.e they wear improper dresses to fool stupid boys (I don't feel sypathy for them, either). And don't deny it, you know it as you have been seeing that in the West.

Brother Candor, so this is your justification for locking up women?  They are guilty by virtue of their gender and are not capable of being pious unless they are completely suppressed by being kept under lock and key.  Would you be so kind Brother Candor and show me ayat in the Qur�an to justify you position?  It seems that you hold the belief that men in general are pious while women in general are evildoers.  Would you please show me in the Qur�an where Allah says such about the nature of men and women? 

Ashukru-lillahi Rabbil-Alameen wala-hawla  wala quwata illa billah

Allah Hafiz

Sister Khadija

Brother123 wrote: You mean you dont appreciate Islam. Nothing to do with Taliban your issue is with islam. You just cant stand women being dressed like the Prophets wives or the sahabiyat. Well boil in your anger because more and more educated Muslim women are choosing to be dressed in Niqab and stay at home etc. And Muslim women wont stand for  Misguided or Munafic  women  (or   men)telling them they should be like kaffir women and not like the wives of the Prophet (peace be upon him) www.shariahway.com

Brother, I told you to ignore these lame and bloke-headed Westerners.

bismillah irrahman irrahim

assalamu alaikum

com'n giv the brother a chance, honestly i cant figure out bout this outrage, now let me tell u this story from life of Sayyidina Muhammad (saw), It is related from Ali (ra) that he said that once he was sitting among many sahabah (ra) n they were discussing what is best quality of a women n they could not comeup with any definite answer so they all retired from this meetin n went to their homes now when Ali (ra) got home he told this to Fatima (ra) n asked her opinion on that She said best quality of a women is that she does not see a na-mehram n is not seen by a na-mehram. next day Ali (ra) met Sayyidina Muhammad (saw) n told him the whole thing a Sayyidina Muhammad (saw) said she is a part of me, subhanAllah.  n bout her it is said that on day of judgement it will b announced that every1 lower their gazes bcos fatima (ra) is comin, subhanAllah such a status

i know every1 will say time has changed, this that n so much more but being honest when i had a break from me finishing uni n startin work, that was best time of my life, I know every1 has different levels of imaan but that feeling of closeness to ur lord i would giveup every thing for that, i suppose its just matter of choice nothing got2 do wiv time

wassalam