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Originally posted by Duende Duende wrote:

Okay, heaven forbid we should blame men.

The purpose of the game is to ensure the survival and success of the extended family/community. We do not differentiate between men and women in that respect, because everybody is called to do his or her duty, whatever that takes. For the women of the extended family/community, that means first and foremost, that they shall maintain their chastity. Any internal/external threat to the survival or success of the extended family/community or failure to do one's duty shall be answered with severe retaliation, and all members, men and women, had better know it.
Originally posted by Duende Duende wrote:

I really feel sorry for every woman you meet. You are a very delusional person indeed, and in for a few surprises.

Men and women are the same in that respect, that they will not forget to do what they have to do, if it is obvious what the goal and the rules are, and you enforce that with an iron fist.
Originally posted by Duende Duende wrote:

You are the first person I've ever said this to on this forum, you are completely st**id and obviously have very little experience of women

Everybody needs to be kept in their place, and women are no exception to that. I am definitely not naive or st.up.id about that. I am likely to be about other things. Point conceded.

We must make sure that the highest social status is given to the members who have contributed the most to the success of the community. The sincere appreciation by other members is invariably the highest reward one could receive. It trumps money, material benefits, et cetera. Therefore, we must enforce the proper social ranking. For women, that means that the ones who have dedicated their lives to the community by never straying from the honourable path, are the highest in rank. We must enforce respect for the older, honourable women, if need be at gunpoint, if only, as a matter of equity, and crucially, in order to maintain the social ranking that will ensure attainment of the extended family/community goals.

Fornicatresses and prostitutes shall be met with contempt and spit upon, at the very least, to clearly indicate the fact that their behaviour is a threat to the extended family/community, and relegate them to the very bottom of the social ladder, so that it is clear to everyone that such path is detestable.

Men shall do their duty and fend off any external interference with the extended family/community, whatever the cost associated, and if need be with machine guns.

As I said in an earlier thread, the bureaucratic state has a strong inclination and desire to stick their noses in the extended family/community with the purpose of weakening kinship ties, and lifting essential extended family/community rules. It is therefore the duty of the men, to unite with the other extended families/communities, and destroy the enemy, with disregard for one's own life.

The almighty Allah expects every man to do his duty.

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In the twenty-first century (1980-2001), women are prostitutes for many
different reasons and these roots of prostitution are similar to the
reasons women became prostitutes in the Victorian age. Some women
move into prostitution due to economic needs like poverty, emotional
neediness and susceptibility to pressure from friends; few women listed
only one main reason for entering into the profession (Scambler 7). Some
prostitutes� explanation for becoming involved in prostitution include
�having a history of sexual abuse, having grown up without love from the
significant adults in their lives, being enticed by a male of female friend
or by peer pressure from a group of friends, and needing money. Those
who used drugs prior to their involvement in prostitution activities
mention their addiction as a major reason for trading sex for money or
drugs.� (Sterk 35)

Why has prostitution been allowed to continue? The answer is simple:
men.

MYTH 1 - Prostitution is a natural expression of sexuality and a necessity
for inadequate sexual relationships.

This view supports a sexual myth that men have uncontrollable sexual
urges that must be fulfilled. Herein lies a justification for prostitution.
The juvenile prostitute is dehumanized by the implication that prostitutes
serve a useful purpose as an object for sexual gratification. The reality, as
described by our sample of former juvenile prostitutes, is that juvenile
prostitutes are often appalled at and damaged by the acts demanded of
them. Their participation is often a threat to their physical well-being.
The act of prostitution is structured by the desires and fantasies of the
customer, which are incongruent with the desires and sensitivities
expressed by the young women in this sample.

MYTH 3 - Juveniles freely choose prostitution.

The following self-reported data on the impact of child abuse shows that
victims of violence can lose their sense of psychological and physical
well-being. Case histories suggest that a number of juveniles engaged in
prostitution grew up in abusive and/or neglectful homes. A fragile self-
esteem and limited resources lead some young girls to believe that they
have no other choice but to enter the world of prostitution.

MYTH 4 - Prostitution can be an exciting and glamorous life.

Cultural mythology about prostitution is built on misinformation and
fantasies of sexuality that are promulgated through movies, television,
videotapes, and printed material including pornography. These may
entice naive young women into prostitution with false promises of
glamour and riches. In reality juvenile prostitutes suffer pain,
humiliation, and degradation at the hands of their pimps and customers.
They are susceptible to sexually transmitted diseases and unwanted
pregnancies
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�If your story were true, Somalia and Burma should be rife with
prostitution, and they aren't, while South Central Los Angeles definitely is

So how come you can�t show any data for either of these two countries?
Recent data shows the preferred form of physical contact for men
towards women in Somalia is rape. No body asked the women. I recently
read about a woman who escaped from her village in Somalia when the
Janjaweed attacked. She now rises at six every morning to go searching
for fire wood. She runs the risk of being seen, and consequently raped,
every day. Where are the men who could protect her, or at least go fetch
the fire wood?

�Given the fact that everybody ancestors were poor, everybody would
descend from criminals and prostitutes. Preposterous.� Once again your
all or nothing reasoning leaves huge gaps in your understanding. Who is
everybody that you assume they were all poor?

�Poverty DOES NOT explain crime and prostitution.�

I think first you would have to define poor. Are you talking about
someone of poor intellect, like yourself, or someone who does not have
enough money to buy the basic ingredient of their staple diet (such as
corn or wheat). An example: people in the slums of Addis Abbaba often
have to get by on 28 US cents a day. Obviously, the staple diet there is
not MacDonalds, nevertheless, starvation is the overriding theme of each
and every day. When most of the men- fathers, husbands, brothers,
nephews are eaten up by typhoid, tuberculosis or AIDS related ailments,
how would you expect them to shelter their women from their constant
desire to fornicate (everybody knows, starvation is such a turn on.)?


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"Let's blame a culture that turns the prostitutes into enviable heroes or
poor victims, instead of facing the truth. In traditional societies,
prostitutes have a very low social status, and are looked down upon, for
very good reasons, if only, to make the career unattractive to any
"aspiring" schoolgirls."

Okay, heaven forbid we should blame men.

I really feel sorry for every woman you meet. You are a very delusional
person indeed, and in for a few surprises.

"Since time immorial, female sexuality has been very well understood and
correctly feared and therefore highly regulated."

You are the first person I've ever said this to on this forum, you are
completely st**id and obviously have very little experience of women
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Originally posted by Hayfa Hayfa wrote:

Well it als ohas to do with people COMPLETELY immoral to force women to do this. and they do. It is not just the breakdown of family. There are many girls who are kidnapped and sold into slavery.

How could the kidnapper get close to the girl and be alone with her without bystanders?
Originally posted by Hayfa Hayfa wrote:

The international trade is tremendous. And once you are in another country you are stuck. Really.

We're talking about girls who were "promised a job" in a foreign country. What father allows his daughter to take that kind of job, while he is supposed to keep an eye on her chastity?
Originally posted by Hayfa Hayfa wrote:

Then there ar et he families who sell their children.

Even that doesn't make sense. They could as well sell her to her future husband, if they are so short of money.
Originally posted by Hayfa Hayfa wrote:

You make it seme like a black and white issue. And it is so complex. Yes a small percentage of people "choose" to do it.

Ha ha ha ha. The vast majority chooses to do it. 1/3 of the schoolgirls in Russia does it on a freelance basis. Why would anybody need to kidnap the remainder, when there are millions of "volunteers"?
Originally posted by Hayfa Hayfa wrote:

As I say, let's shame the men.

Let's blame a culture that turns the prostitutes into enviable heroes or poor victims, instead of facing the truth. In traditional societies, prostitutes have a very low social status, and are looked down upon, for very good reasons, if only, to make the career unattractive to any "aspiring" schoolgirls.



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To some extent, you are right.

The absent fathers syndrome leads to fornicating and prostituting daughters, and when the proportion of girls in the community getting into that, rises above a certain treshold, they all start doing it, including the girls from good families.

Well it als ohas to do with people COMPLETELY immoral to force women to do this. and they do. It is not just the breakdown of family. There are many girls who are kidnapped and sold into slavery. The international trade is tremendous. And once you are in another country you are stuck. Really. Then there ar et he families who sell their children..

You make it seme like a black and white issue. And it is so complex. Yes a small percentage of people "choose" to do it. And then the vast majority are either sold or stolen. And once in, hard to get out especially in poor countries.

As I say, let's shame the men.

When you do things from your soul, you feel a river moving in you, a joy. Rumi
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Originally posted by Duende Duende wrote:

You said; "The typical career for aspiring girls over there is prostitute." This is extremely demeaning, and shows not only your callous attitude towards women in general (let alone Russian women)...

"Russia's Prostitution Trade" Author: Carrie McVicker
However, the crisis is not going to end anytime soon with one out of every eight schoolgirls aspiring to be a hard-currency call girl when she grows up.(Goscilo 14)

A survey compiled in 1990 showed that Soviet women ranked prostitution 8th in a list of what they felt to be the top 20 employment positions in the USSR. Around the same time 1/3 of high school girls admitted that they would exchange sex for hard currency.

In a 1998 poll, Russian high school seniors ranked prostitute and hired assassin above scientist, engineer and researcher as attractive career choices.

A 12-year-old girl, found on the street in Saratov by police, said she was in prostitution to raise enough money to buy a Barbie doll.

Originally posted by Duende Duende wrote:

...but a complete ignorance of the causes of prostitution...Prostitution arises as a direct response to poverty, marginalisation and vulnerability.

Ha ha ha ha. If your story were true, Somalia and Burma should be rife with prostitution, and they aren't, while South Central Los Angeles definitely is.

Given the fact that everybody ancestors were poor, everybody would descend from criminals and prostitutes. Preposterous.

Poverty DOES NOT explain crime and prostitution.

Crime and prostitution are explained by (nuclear) family breakdown and moral breakdown (at the extended family/community level).

Regarding the divorce rate, Russia is currently in second place. There are more divorces only in America.
Originally posted by Duende Duende wrote:

Since time immemorial, female sexuality has been at best misunderstood and at worst, totally feared and therefore repressed and demonised.

Ha ha ha ha.

Since time immorial, female sexuality has been very well understood and correctly feared and therefore highly regulated.

It is the crucially important job of fathers and brothers to keep the daughter on the honourable path of chastity. That's what people traditionally call "family honour". That concept exists in all traditions across the world, and for good reasons. You can't modernize your way out of biology, can you?
Originally posted by Duende Duende wrote:

For this reason, prostitution will invariably be blamed on women, when it's primary causes, the reasons for its existence, are entirely male dominated.

To some extent, you are right.

The absent fathers syndrome leads to fornicating and prostituting daughters, and when the proportion of girls in the community getting into that, rises above a certain treshold, they all start doing it, including the girls from good families.



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Crass, you seriously have a problem, but for the moment at least it is
entertaining, you're obsession with female promiscuity, or as you prefer
to call it; fornication. (Which as we know, is all women's fault.)

You said; "The typical career for aspiring girls over there is prostitute."
This is extremely demeaning, and shows not only your callous attitude
towards women in general (let alone Russian women) but a complete
ignorance of the causes of prostitution. If there were no men in your
neighbourhood, what do you think, the girls would all emmigrate to
Russia where they could start up a brothel?

Prostitution arises as a direct response to poverty, marginalisation and
vulnerability. Prostitution rings are invariably controlled by men, there's
no lack of evidence of prostitution mafia and world wide 'white flesh
trade' feeding the male appetite.

Since time immemorial, female sexuality has been at best misunderstood
and at worst, totally feared and therefore repressed and demonised.

For this reason, prostitution will invariably be blamed on women, when
it's primary causes, the reasons for its existence, are entirely male
dominated.
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