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Israfil
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Funny I replied to Angela with an Islamic greeting she doesn't reply similarly a true woman of God indeed!
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Angel
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I think fatima's and herjihad's responses are good but I also think women especially of foreign nationalities need to know that not ALL men (or women) are going to know that some names are female names (or male) in such and such languages I believe these women need to take that into account beforehand. |
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Angel
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I believe you missed Israfil's point. Some women are and can be uptight this is in no way taking away the fact that its a woman's right for those who don't want to talk to a man. |
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Angel
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While I have to disagree with you Angela about Israfil, I do agree with you below.
I slightly disagree with this, some things are not for the public or for the whole world to hear. Some times some things are private not to be talked about to the whole world. Just as when private things are not for the whole world to know about. {of course this excluded assaults of any kind that need to be known to others} so please don't jump down on me for that :( |
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Israfil
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Angela, All I can say is may God protect you |
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Angela
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I don't follow two belief systems. I follow one. I can't help it if two have commonalities I can share with others. I believe the first emails I got from you were to the public email that I have since removed from my profile. Giving you my other one was a big mistake. Which is exactly why women should be guarded about talking to people over the internet. There is absolutely no way to know what the other person is really like until its too late. And some men use "sincere" questions just to get women to trust them. Secondly, I talk to alot of people, what I am defending is the fact that you called it ridiculous that some women find it uncomfortable to talk to men in PMs. Its not ridiculous, its a woman's perogative as to her comfort level.
Its not ridiculous, its her choice. Many of the Muslimah's here were born Muslim and have been raised with a certain level of comfort, but not with non Mehram men. Private places are all around, even in cyberspace. I've been to Islamic rooms where you have to enter your gender and private messaging is not allowed between anyone except the moderators. Why, because if you can't say it in public, then you probably shouldn't be saying it in private! |
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Israfil
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Well confused people such as yourself never learn yourself, I wonder...Try following one path before adopting several belief systems. BTW wasn't it you that gave me your email since you are soooo private? hmmm who's the hypocrite now.
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Angela
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I haven't adopted two religions. And discussing an issue? Really please, the issue was being discussed here, you were more like chastising a child when you took it to email. Oh well, men like you never learn.
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