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interracial
Newbie Joined: 23 August 2005 Location: Canada Status: Offline Points: 7 |
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Well... I don't agree with Jabedi...
You don't "look for a wife" as you look for a car... Keep active! Yes, get involved in your community and naturally, you'll meet people and women and one day, you'll feel it... That that particular woman and you will feel well eachother and then... well, it's up to you, but don't rush it. Risks of having a bad union are far higher if you feel in a rush... Let time work for you, not agains't you!!! R�ginald Roy Montreal, Qc. Canada |
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Israfil
Senior Member Joined: 08 September 2003 Status: Offline Points: 3984 |
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Frankly for some men especially those who suffer from constant
lust I believe 90% of their efforts to marry are to quench those desires. Prior to my conversion to Islam when I was really promiscuous sex used to be the norm for me and the desire was I need to have it. Much like masturbation, but in matters of sexual appetites I believe that a woman who is good first and is loyal to you and wants the same things you want (things besides wanting to have sexual intercourse) then that is the woman for you. Now to quell the urge of masturbation I cannot say because various methods work differently for different people. I cannot tell what works for me because it cannot work for you. Your best bet is to consult with God. |
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jabedi
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An important thing is to make sure you are doing things. Do you have a job? involved in sports? join a youth group or other non profit organization? Keep yourself active. Next I would say you should start looking for a wife. These urges happen for a reason. Learn your Islam, get involved with the community, and i promise you will find a good woman. Temporarily, I would recommend self discipline. You need to get some control over yourself. The fact is that it is not common for someone to be in that much of a need to post this message in this forum. This is a problem if you are truthful. In the meantime take cold showers and think of other thoughts. Your brother, Jawad |
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Brother123
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im cracking up here David lol
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firewall
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Israfil
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LOL Bro David that was funny......
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DavidC
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Marriage. It will cure the urge for masturbation for about 7-9 years.
It cures all desire for sex after that. |
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Christian; Wesleyan M.Div.
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interracial
Newbie Joined: 23 August 2005 Location: Canada Status: Offline Points: 7 |
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...And btw, masturbation is far better than sexual agression!
If all child molesters would practice self-pleasure instead of attacking children, we would be in a better world. Masturbation may be haram, as it is illegal for a christian, but at my eyes, this is minor, and biologically, it's a natural need. Reginald Roy Montreal, Canada |
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